I'm Possible

"Siapa bilang lo gagal? Men liat,dia masih disana! Apa cuma gara gara kemarin lo gagal semua selesai? Enggak men.."

"lo yang udah ngajarin gue hidup kaya lo dulu,elo ngajarin gue bahwa satu satunya hal yang nggak mungkin didunia ini cuma kata kata nggak mungkin itu sendiri karna Tuhan nggak pernah ngajarin kata kata itu! Itu kata kata buatan manusia sendiri lo inget?!"

"Gue nggak ngeharapin semuanya jadi kaya gini,gue nggak ngeharapin setelah lo ngajarin semangat lo ke gue lo akan berubah jadi kaya gue dulu! Apa api merah yang dulu ada didada lo sekarang cuma jadi arang padam?"

"men,liat mata gue! Selama arang padam didada lo masih padam,gue akan jadi bara api yang selalu ada bareng lo! Gue akan jadi api yang akan nyalain arang padam didada lo!"

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Swinging April!

Habis ujian nih ceritanya,dan ceritanya lagi beberapa bulan ini lagi suka sama band dari Bandung

oke deh langsung aja coba dengerin 

Human Ego Defense Mechanisms

By JOHN M. GROHOL, PSY.D

In some areas of psychology (especially in psychodynamic theory), psychologists talk about “defense mechanisms,” or manners in which we behave or think in certain ways to better protect or “defend” ourselves. Defense mechanisms are one way of looking at how people distance themselves from a full awareness of unpleasant thoughts, feelings and behaviors.

Psychologists have categorized defense mechanisms based upon how primitive they are. The more primitive a defense mechanism, the less effective it works for a person over the long-term. However, more primitive defense mechanisms are usually very effective short-term, and hence are favored by many people and children especially (when such primitive defense mechanisms are first learned). Adults who don’t learn better ways of coping with stress or traumatic events in their lives will often resort to such primitive defense mechanisms as well.

Most defense mechanisms are fairly unconscious – that means most of us don’t realize we’re using them in the moment. Some types of psycotherapy can help a person become aware of what defense mechanisms they are using, how effective they are, and how to use less primitive and more effective mechanisms in the future.

Love Letter #1

Hai lagi hujan ya? (basa basi)

Malam tadi entah kenapa aku jadi sulit tidur,kamu tahu sendiri kalau jam tidurku lebih banyak dari jam tidur koala tapi aku selalu menahan diri untuk tidak tidur selama singa masai yang tidurnya selama 15 jam sehari